08-08-2024 12:34 PM
08-08-2024 12:34 PM
@Glisten so obvious it's boring...ha!
Archaeology would be so fascinating and I was fond of Stargate myself.
Re the phone, my phone was still in mi t condition so I gave it to ex friend and got a newer one for myself. Not the latest, just an upgrade but as I'm on plan I am paying off the new phone, I think over 36 months. It took her all of a month after I gave her the phone to cut me off.
And worse yet she had access to my Gmail account and had deleted several important emails.
Better me to suffer than her and my former God children though.
08-08-2024 12:37 PM
08-08-2024 12:47 PM
08-08-2024 12:47 PM
@Shaz51 very nice. Enjoy relaxing, a good way to recharge the batteries.
08-08-2024 12:58 PM
08-08-2024 12:58 PM
@ENKELI I had to learn a hard lesson.
2of2 told me. “You help too much.”
I’ve had the same conversation with @PeppyPatti about her ex.
When you solve people’s problems you rob them of an opportunity to grow.
A friend of mine is a counsellor to grandparents who are the primary caregivers to their grandchildren.
They had to let their children hit rock bottom.
You can’t save people from themselves.
Only by caring for yourself can you be in a future position to give your godchildren stability.
I think you would be a great Union Organiser. United Workers Union are always looking for people. Especially in build up to State and Federal elections.
G
08-08-2024 01:57 PM
08-08-2024 01:57 PM
@PeppyPatti dear, the quake was due east of Melbourne, circa 100ks. It was Tuesday at 4am.
On a brighter note I'm having some self medication in the sunny window of my hideout, which I leave tomorrow. Destination unknown.
08-08-2024 02:02 PM
08-08-2024 02:02 PM
@Stout I'm about to go for a walk here. Its really windy. Spring is known usually for its high winds during the season. Are you looking for somewhere to move to Stout or going on holidays? i'm not up to speed on your activity. Well walk i go! Talk later 🙂
08-08-2024 05:28 PM
08-08-2024 05:28 PM
08-08-2024 05:40 PM
08-08-2024 05:40 PM
@PeppyPatti as old @ Tab says .. 'when the going gets tough, ..thats tough .., i'm going ..' lolo 😊
08-08-2024 05:48 PM
08-08-2024 06:06 PM
08-08-2024 06:06 PM
Without judgement @Stout you have written what you have done wrong in your posts or one time or another. Do you think of the word neurotic . So one part of neurotic is
" finding it difficult dealing with stress"
" Blaming yourself for your mishaps,"
If you will meet with a single lady
Someone who is not crazy or weird, the best thing to do is to be yourself right ?
So, in conclusion - as I think of past messages and your feelings am I correct in thinking
Your finding it difficult to cope with your daily stress.
You can listen as long as it's not bs.
You have qualifications which you would like to revisit at the right time but your pretty cool past makes you aware that you are flexible of whatever comes up.
...........,................................
Please write what I have missed out. Please write that you feel doesn't suit you.
I'm mindful that it has taken me over a year for me to realise one lady I was hoping to be my friend is not what I thought she was.
@Stout thankyou for your compliments. You have helped me too.
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